Baby showers. Most people see these as joyous occasions -- and they are! However, for many women suffering through infertility, miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant/child loss, baby showers can be a source of deep pain, anxiety, and heartache. I want to encourage you today -- and I mean, really encourage you. The word "encourage" quite literally means "to bring in to courage," and that's what I'm here to do. Please know that I am in no way saying you should feel guilty or ashamed if you choose not to attend a shower. But these words I am offering come from my own experience and suffering, and I hope they give you the boost of strength you need in your time of pain today. The slippery … [Read more...]